Minati shriyam jarima tanu na mapyu nu patnirvrashno jagamyouh .
Means children are the wealth and not the money . Goswamiji has written that only cotton sari is valuable for woman and not the ornaments , see…
Vasanheen nahi soh surari, sab bhusan bhusit var nari.
There are many examples of women leaving all the wealth for the welfare of their family . Madalsa , mother who was spiritual minded , taught her children the adhyatma and not going for the kingdom .
Chanakya was very straight forward for his writing , he described the woman not as the mother but as the enemy , who do not cares for the child but cares for her prosperity. See..
Rinkarta pita shatru mata cha abhichariny .
It has always been seen that the role of father is meaningless as for as role of mother is concerned for children .